We're here already, let's wait a little bit so everybody can jump in and I can begin explaining what is this all about
I'm gonna connect the LIVE on my iPad so I can read all the comments and questions if I need to
Not sure why it's not working..
I'm feeling nervous, its just a LIVE but I'm so excited about it
I have here behind the cameras my friend Deborah who is gonna let me know when we are enough people
I have ready the LIVE on my iPad
Here we go
We are ready
This is so exciting girls!!! Here we are in the first LIVE of ... MAMA CITAS
An I think the first thing I have to tell you if why I named it this way
We've been thinking for so long which name would be good
since all my followers are not moms
But we can all be "mamacitas" so what a better name than this to represent us all
And it was Israel's ides, I gotta say it
Today is the first LIVE so that's why I wanted to use it to explain how it's gonna be
and why I am doing it
It's gonna be a weekly LIVE where each week we'll speak about something different
One second because it seems you can't hear me.. Is it the sounds ok?
You can't hear me properly.. It's ok, I'll speak louder
Can you hear me this way?
I'm gonna try to speak louder and We'll fix it for the next, we will need a microphone
I'll keep talking loud... hopefully is better
Well. Why I decided to do this LIVE? Thats the first thing
A lot of you know that I'm an actress, but a couple of years ago I began working on social media
It doesn't mean that I haven't been connected with the acting but...
But It has made me spend more of the time on social media
So I was thinking.. What could I do to create something relating social media, but also feeling good as an actress
or as a hostess.. however you wanna call it
After weeks of brain stormingI I thought
I'm gonna create my own "talk show" with all the women that follow me
and I'll speak about all the things that are interesting for them
because you have no idea how many times a lot of you ask me the same
for the same matters
I realized that there is a lot of misinformation , things that we don't learn at school
so why not taking advantage of the audience that I have on Instagram
my drive to get to do something like this and talk and learn with you
also sharing my experience, because I gotta say that everything I will share will be based on my own experience
based on me as a mom, woman, and person
In each LIVE I'll have someone with me
Just today for being the first one, I did it by myself
But in each program I'll have here with me another mom, woman, or an expert about the matter we will be discussing
You know already why I began this
I hope you like it, I hope you enjoy it
and among all, to learn and get rid of so many worries that we all have, even me
before I began working on social media, I was the first one following other influencer moms
to get answers, to know more about nursing, about the delivery, the post part ...etc etc
this will be like a platform for women to talk about things interesting for us, and I'm gonna stop repeating myself
It's focussed to women. And even tho now at the beginning we will talk more about moms concerns
It won't be only about motherhood or pregnancy
since now I'm pregnant, It's what I gotta talk in this moment
Knowing all this, let's talk about how it's gonna work
Each Thursday at 12pm I'll connect my LIVE
with a special guest, or guests, depending on what we are gonna be talking
I can not bring too many, or we won't fit on the screen
anyways! We are gonna treat matters like BLW, introduction of solids, post part depression, breastfeeding, delivery with and without epidural
first aid, baby carrying, belly support bands..
during the pregnancy, postpartum, are they good? are they bad? when to use them? for what?
All matters that you have asked me continuously
sleep training, how to begin, how to get them to sleep thru the night, ...
couple relationships
etc etc etc ok?
So each Thursday I'll connect LIVE, and I will let you know in advance what the LIVE will be about so you know if its interesting for you
we will talk, share, and I'll be filming it
I know a lot of you won't be able to see it live,
each of you are in a different part of the world, some are right now working, some are giving dinner to their kids...
thats why I have a camera here recording, I will also subtitle it in English and upload it to Youtube
If you want to learn English you can always go to Youtube and check the video again , in Spanish with the subtitles in English. A way to learn English
That will be then the routine.. every Thursday,, at 12pm .. we do the LIVE,.. I record it..I put subtitles and I upload it as soon as I can in Youtube
And the surprise is, that in each LIVE
depending on what we are talking, I'll do a giveaway, a gift
Imagine we are talking about baby carriers, then I'll have here one carrier to giveaway between all the people who is participating in the LIVE
between the comments, the questions, etc etc
today, since we are not talking about nothing special
I'm giving away the TRu Self Organics Mask, the one the I've being used the last four, five , six months
The mask that I've used more in my whole life, a lot of you have it already and you keep telling me you love it. Me too!
Vegan , organic, natural.. it's great
Since I love this mask and you know I've used it a lot, It's the product I have chosen to giveaway to one of you that are there watching me right now
Having explain already all this
I'm gonna tell you, what has happened between Israel and I because you've been asking a lot ...
So.... Here it comes what you want the most huh.. I know that..
The thing it is...
I think in every relationship there are problems sometimes, or highs and lows
but not every couple have around 200k people watching their lives
every day
So in that moment where Israel Is not n my stories, or I'm not showing him as much
I begin to get many messages asking me " What is going on , what is it going on...???"
I know I don't have to give any explanation because I share on my IG whatever I want to
But I feel with the responsibility that if you girls are following and supporting me in all the things that I share
I understand
that you want to know if something is happening or has happened with Israel because you are curious
And it's not about if it's interesting or not, I could maybe tell you " Its not your business"
But I do understand that you wanna know, so thats why one day I wrote
that we were going thru a hard time, respect me, in the way that I can't be explaining to 200k people what it's going on
or going into details because thats something private
Just respect me, and when it is the moment then We'll talk about it
because we are the first ones that we don't even know whats gonna happen
how I am gonna be able to tell you what is going on between us
So
what did happen?
It was that relationships have downs sometimes
we were carrying problems from months ago
and it's what happens when you don't attack the problem from the root
You let it be, let it be.. but that problem keep showing up.. showing up...
It doesn't matter how many problems there are
If you don't get to the bottom of them, nothing will change
What also happens. It's that many times we think we are arguing about one thing
But later, when you go deep into the issue, you realize that what bothers you it's a another thing
It's another issue which wasn't making the couple work well
With that being said, also the social media believe it or not
being all day sharing stories, sharing things
somebody who doesn't work in this, doesn't really will understand
and it doesn't mean that it's the main reason, but it does affect the relation, you are the whole day with a phone in your hand
so it's like we've had to think about all these things that were influencing, or were not working out
to make it work
The important here is that we both wanted to work on it
We both love each other, We want to be together , and that's the base
the base to make a relationship work, if that both people want to make it work
He is not on the stories on Ig just because We decided to have some distance
that is the reason of why you don't see him, but It doesn't mean He is not here, sometimes is him who is filming me
or He is next to me, or working... and that's is why He seems not to be around
It's not that I'm alone 24 hours with Alexandra and He disappeared, not, It's not like that
I also want to share that since the day that I said that We were having problems, I got so many messages
and by many messages, I mean so many
telling me that You were going thur the same, or that when You had kids, You also had some problems
or that you were into something similar
I wanna share this, because in case You are also in something like this, even tho you haven't shared it with me, realized that it happens to many women
We are all the same, in every relationship or in most of them are downs
And if in your relation it doesn't happen , then better for you
But in most of them, there are crisis, there are bad moments
The most important thing is that both people communicate and talk to each other
then you gotta decide if you both want to make it work and try, or not. If you both aren't on the same page then It won't work
But if you two want to make it work, wanna try, and want to be together, then go for it
You can feel related, don't think you are alone
Even if on Ig it seems that everything is perfect, it's not
Of my whole daily life, You only get to watch a 10% 20%?
And We share on Instagram whatever We want you to see
and we share positive, nice, beautiful things.. because why would we share negative or sad moments
That doesn't;t mean, We are not honest, and If We are in a crisis like now, We are gonna share it
If we are not well, I won't share dancing videos with him.. I'm an honest person
You ask me many times to put videos dancing with him, but how are We gonna do that if we don't feel it. We would be lying to all of you
first dancing together and one week later, we are separated.. Not, we don't do that
So that it is what is going on with Israel
We are together, yes we are, because many of you ask me that
We are just going thru our problems our diferences, however you wanna call them, working on them
little by little, when we recover the stability as a couple, it will all be normal again
We'll do dance videos again, and funny stuff...
I'm gonna read now some of your comments, and see if you have any question
let me see
For example someone is saying " Every couple fight, but we gotta make it work if there is love and keep going"
If you have questions write them now so I can answer them, or any doubt about the LIVES
If not it's ok, maybe today the LIVE is shorter since it's an introduction
Mama CItas LIVES are gonna have a duration of 30 minutes more or less
otherwise I will end up annoying you
Have you think putting yourself on a schedule for the social media?
Yes! Actually I don't know if you know this, but in your iPhone you can set up an alarm
where you choose how many hours a day you wanna spender on your social media apps
I have set it up to 4 hours, since It's like a part time job for me
Actually I put 5 hours, not sure, but don't want to lie
When I have spend the 5 hours time on social media
The ones I use the most are Insttagram, WhatsApp, Facebook I don't use it too much, and maybe Youtube, but the main one is Instagram
When I get to the 5 hours, the alarm shuts off the apps, So I know that I should be done. And It's usually at night, when I'm already in the couch
One second, because Deborah is showing me something but I don't have my glasses on and I can't red it!
Another question, If Alexandra has felt the separation
That was one of the biggest reasons, if not the biggest one
that we decided that we couldn't keep fighting and having this energy with Alexandra
And even tho We tried to not argue in from of her, or scream, etc Sometimes just the energy, the serious attitude if enought for her to feel it..
We knew that we were the only ones that have to protect Alexandra, nobody is gonna come to do it. If we don't protect her, who will do it?? Nobody
At the beginning we decided to spend less time together, not the 24 hours, so we would have less opportunities to fight
At least till thing calm down a little, lets not spend much time together
If before we would go together to the park with Alexandra, now He will go by himself, and I'll take advantage to do things on my own
then He will go to work, and I'll stay with Alexandra
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