Isn´t he handsome? The more I cover the more I become handsome?
It is covering your head… Are you using the camera as a mirror?
You look like a Bedouin. Yes… let me see… I don't look very ….
How to travel with the love of your life…
And not kill each other
Please tell me! How to go on a journey with the love of your life
The question is not how to travel with your love…
But How to begin a journey with your love! That´s the question and the hardest thing!
Let´s see. How to be diplomatic
And find the right words And to choose the right time to tell her
when she brings all that she wants to take, that there are physical laws to be complied with
And must be followed Everything in the house and all her wardrobe
Cannot join us on the journey I do understand that you don´t want to wear
the same shirt That you don´t want to look always the same ….
But it´s another thing, to take the whole wardrobe!
Well… here I have my clothes
Half of the suitcase is for me And the other half is for Paloma
So Here I have my shirts and pants I'm a woman that loves to change
I like one day to dress like a bohemian then more casual
And another day more formal. So I need to have a little of everything.
The only thing I don't have are high heels shoes
So sometimes I do have something stylish to put on
But I end up wearing sneakers with that
They ask me… how do you manage to spend so much time together
As they say that with their husbands they would kill each other
It´s one thing to live with the love of your life… It´s another thing to travel with him…
To live a daily life You get home late and say goodnight
And next day very early you give a kiss of "see you later"
But to travel with your love… It´s different
It´s 24 hours a day, 7 days a week together!
Wherever I look … I see Herman!
This is how we have been since 2000!!!
Some things that do happen to us for example…
I´m looking at the Sacred Family Church Just from outside is unbelievable
I turn around to say to Cande… Look at that spire
And she is not there anymore…where has she gone? Looking at a shop window or something like that.
Yeah.. I already saw the Church and is so beautiful
But to see one spire I´ve seen them all…
Why is it so hard to look at another spire But not another shop window?
I don´t understand
When in the car we are separated by only 15 cm
And there is no radio and nothing else to do other than talking
Now that we have the kids there are more subjects to discuss and more people to talk with.
Is so good that Paloma is with us! Because… sometimes … suddenly Cande asks me…
What do you think I should do to my hair? And I look at her… and I know that I should say something
The lady is traveling… her sisters are not around,
She is not with her girlfriends…. This is the moment that I have to become one of them!
And tell her something to make her feel like she is among them.
Between girlfriends.. I need to act….
So I start to ask her….Do you think so?
It looks so pretty But may be yes… you could do something.
May be it is too dry, I think you have splits-ends
And for sure Cande will look at her hair…and will add… Yeah…. That conditioner it not one I like
I would really love to get into a shop and find my favorite my conditioner…
it was so good for me…
I also have to hear you….
And about so boring things! That the mechanic took the clutch disc
And when he was about to put it on the wrong way you stopped him on time
to show him… Bla bla bla…
And…how do I know what is a Disc? I can only imagine something with music.
And what´s wrong about putting it on the other side?
Anyway there I am. Listening to you. And I said….
Don´t you realize that I only agree by nodding my head… and I say… Ahhh….?
One of the things that puts the couple at risk on a journey is
that all the time decisions are made together
From…what time we are leaving… where to go, what we are going to eat.
How we are going to make some money here, which place to visit…
Where do we sleep? And like that, infinite decisions….
We have to be careful that we don´t get into endless discussions
Is it all ready? All is ready, there is only one thing missing…
the keys of the car
And we will leave Africa and Egypt at the same time But the car keys are missing.
How far are we from the border? We are 50 kilometers from Israel…
Israel we are going to Israel.
Ayayayay….. But I need to find the keys first….
Ahh…. I´ve got them in my pocket It does not surprise me… as Francisco would say.
Doesn´t surprise me. Why does this not surprise me?
Why doesn´t this surprise me… why… Because Herman, is like this
Sometimes we ask the Universe to decide for us
When we cannot make a decision We flip a coin
Or sometimes play Rock, paper, scissors… To get to a crossroads and decide
which way to go It is not so hard…
But sometimes, we need to decide which continent to go to next.
I believe that one of the most difficult moments on a journey with your love
s between the second and third month of the trip
those… are the hardest ones As you have to learn to get use to each other…
and if you survive those months.. Great! You are on the right path!
Plus, if you do survive together when you run out of money…then, the relationship is forever.
I need to be careful if we have a disagreement if I do have one with Herman.. where do I go?
If I slam the door, and I get off…. I´m done!
He goes… so I don't have any other chance than to stay angry next to him.
Imagine yourself inside the car driving a long road
very straight and long… on both side there is only desert
After a while… to look outside is to look at the same view
And you see that your wife is thinking… So you know that at any moment
she will start talking about something… And at that moment… I can't escape
Where could I go? I can´t say I need to mow the lawn
or I am going to see my friends. I have him, all for me, there!
Yes, just there Between a rock and a hard place
Not even a radio to turn on and tell her that I need to listen the game
Even worst… I know which words she will use…
Do you remember the other day…? This is it…. I´m trapped
We are back to that discussion…. the one where she says is not a discussion
but a chat Yes… I already knew you would say that
It was so lovely to look at the desert. You cannot image all the time and opportunities
that a women has to talk and talk about the same subject again and again
The truth is, a journey helps the couple a lot
as you are changing every day
and taking decisions together We get along very well
We are always moving along together in life We walk hand in hand
Otherwise… you will get lost
The trip helps a lot… And it´s because we´re doing what we dreamed
And that adds up a lot Why do we fall in love?
You fall in love because of your Dreams And what you want to do and be in life..
as we go forward together living our dreams We fall in love even more
On a journey, you will see wonderful things
like walking along postcard beaches walk around little lovely villages
taste new flavors of delicious meals
And also look at sunsets But all this wouldn't have much sense if you were alone
To be able to share with someone
walking along that beach holding hands with the love of your life
share that delicious food from her plate
Just sit together in the park of that village…
Every meal is a date… a date to go out And all this make the journey… how could I say?
This make the trip… Sublime It make it majestic!
It is like this…The best is to share This way… kilometer by kilometer
Kiss to kiss…the Dream comes true And love is enjoyed
So… this deserves a hug!
I think you have split ends.
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