If your parents are alcoholics
You have the choice :
You can let your choices being shaped by your parent's behaviour
and imitates their lifestyle.
Or you can choose an healthier path.
It all depends on the awareness you'll choose to have on the subject.
Hi everyone and welcome to "Would you react ?"
The 100% positive Youtube channel !
I know some of you guys are living in a not-so-healthy family environment
We think drinking alcohol in early age is okay...
People lacking a little bit of love...
We have only one family,
so, it's sometimes complicated to recognise our situation as unusual
and to understand if a context is abusive or not.
Of course, you should respect your parents,
but it doesn't mean that you can't start now asking yourself the right questions
and try to understand what's healthy and what's not.
Can we learn in a playful way how to become really good people ?
Sure ! Here is the video !
Pay attention to the last try. It really surprised us.
We were a bit confused, tell us what you think in the comments !
We're really interested in your opinion.
As usual, you'll find some advices from our counsellor at the end of the video.
Come sit here, Gwen !
- It's wet ! - Here too, it doesn't matter.
- How are you doing pretty little girl ? - I am good.
Okay, let's see.. What would you like to drink ?
- Red wine, please ! - Some wine ?
- Red wine ! - Some red wine ?!!
Yes, a glass of red wine please.
I am used to it, my uncle Marc gave me some to try.
- She is too young ! - Nah, she is not..
- And for you ? - A Vodka.
And a vodka for him.
Red wine for me, please.
You are way too young to drink red wine.
Yeah but it's fine, that's what we do.
I am used to it, my uncle Marc gave me some to try.
Yes, but she is too young to drink alcohol !
Okay, but I am her granddad, and I am okay with her drinking some red wine...
... when Mom is not around !
- And for you ? - A Volka, please.
I am sorry but i can't serve alcohol to the kids.
- How old are you? Ten? - He is 11 years old.
What is he doing to drink at 18 then ? That's not a good example.
Okay so how about...
[30 seconds later]
Can we have the 2+1free Mojitos special, please?
- So we have a Mojito each ? - I cannot serve you this, sir.
I am telling you that's what I want ! 3 Mojitos , please.
3 Mojitos cause we're thirsty !
And then he said 3 Mojitos !!!
I was very pissed off !
[2nd try]
Let's see what they have here...
- Tell her what you want to drink. - Vodka, please.
- Vodka ?! - Yes, a bottle, please.
- Which one would you prefer? - That's for him ?!
- Yeah, that's for him. I am his granddad. - Oh, okay.
I authorised them.
- Do you have a 40 degrees one ? - That's 40 degrees.
You don't want this one? That's 40 degrees. This one is Whisky, you like Whisky too, don't you?
I do !
Good, give him the bottle of Whisky instead, he prefers. Otherwise, he's not going to drink it.
If it's not strong enough, it doesn't drink it !
You don't drink it all at once, okay ? Just the half.
Okay.
- You like this one, you're good ? - Yes.
That's not all. What do you want to drink ?
- A little bottle of red wine, please ? - This one? - For her, yes please.
[3rd try]
[He notices the cans the children are holding]
Do you mind taking a picture of us please ?
With the beer ?
Yeah, sure !
[and ignores it]
Thanks !
Is that Coke ?
[4th try]
Hello, tell him what you want to drink. What do you want ?
- He's a little thirsty... - Vodka.
- A bottle of Vodka. - A bottle of Vodka ?
- Do you have some Vodka ? - Sure, it's over there.
Okay, but you don't drink it all at once. Just the half.
Okay.
[5th try]
- Do you want a drink? Are you thirsty? - Vodka.
- Which Vodka ? - Which one do you want ?
The one with the red lid, please.
You don't drink it all, you drink slowly. Here is your bottle.
Slowly ! You don't drink all at once, you keep the second half for this afternoon.
- Thanks. - Thanks, bye.
[6th try]
Hello, Can you help me open the bottle, please ?
OH MY GOD !
Can you open...
[7th try]
Hi, Can you help me open the bottle, please ?
And pouring it in my sister's glass and mine, please ?
Thank you.
Hang on, that's not water !
Ah, that's Vodka !
Seriously ?
Don't drink that !
How come that you reacted that way ?
That's personal... My father was alcoholic.
It can go very far...
You mean, you're aware of the consequences ?
You can die, that's simple as this. If it goes too far, you can also stupidly commit suicide.
[8th try]
Sir, can you help me open the bottle, it's too hard.
Oh dear.
You're not drinking Vodka, are you ?
- Can you help me pouring it, please ? - Okay, if you want...
[We all have our part of responsibility towards the education of the children.]
What are you doing ?!
I don't know, he asked me to help him pouring it.
What? I was thinking it's water.
- But it's not. - No.
[Last try]
- Hello ! - Hello.
- Tell him what you want to drink.. - A beer, please.
A beer.
- 3 beers, please. - Small ones ?
Yes, please, 25 cl should be fine.
[What's going to happen ?!]
A beer for the young boy, a beer for the little girl and a beer for myself !
- How much ? - 7,50 Euros, please.
It's nice, we're thirsty !
[The beers are served.]
[We decide to add another actress, as a fake Mom.]
Did you buy beers to the kids ?!
They were thirsty.
Yeah but seriously, beers..
We didn't think you would turn up.
That's what we usually do, we go for a walk and we drink a little beer when we are thirsty...
- You mean, that's not the first time ? - Not really.
- But that's not ALL the time. - Usually ? Did you see their age ?
What an example !
That's not my fault, Granddad said it was okay.
I am not mad at you, I am mad at Granddad.
Excuse-me, I don't understand why you served alcohol to my kids ?
Even, if they are with their granddad, that doesn't explain why...
Is there not a law or something to prevent serving alcohol to kids ?
Yes there is, but only if the kids are alone. That's our responsibility.
But if they are with an adult, that's the adult's responsibility.
I was surprised, but...
- Does that happen often ? - No, that was the first time for me.
Finding them like that, at a table with beers, seriously...
They are 6 and 10 years old...
Legally, I don't have to right to refuse to serve them. The granddad is the authority here.
If he orders something, I have to obey, otherwise it's a case of discrimination.
I do not have the right to decide who i am serving or not.
If an adult is here, all the responsibility goes to him.
I think the goal of your video is to motivate people to save the child
from a potential bad education.
I personally think that you can't save a child from his parents.
Nothing is going to prevent the adult to have this behaviour again,
when I won't be there, when he will be alone with the child at home.
It's like a little seed in the mind of the child.
I would personally prefer to wait for an opportunity to talk in private with the child and ask him :
"Your father ordered you a beer, are you okay with this ?"
"What do you think ? How do you feel about this ?"
If i could give an advice to the child, i would say :
"You do have the right to express how you feel to adults...
... even if they are responsable for you".
It's okay to say : "Daddy, I am not okay with the fact that you ordered me a beer !".
If the adult wants to do something the child disapproves...
...he still has the right to say No !
and that's what we should teach to our children.
Pain is making us stronger if we choose to react.
Không có nhận xét nào:
Đăng nhận xét